Thursday, May 20, 2010

What will happen in next 10 years???


Late night after I watch IP man 2 by coincidence.. suddenly my friend bring his hard disk then want to test it at my notebook.. it turns out that I watched it.. haha.. but.. then I was thinking about something.. maybe it’s a man thought.. it just something I need to do in the future.. why we are here?? What are we suppose to do in this beautiful world while we still here alive?? All this while I was too careless, I was too ego, I was too enjoy in this perfect world.. sometimes I feel ashamed but I never realize.. I need to make a change if I want to live in a better world peacefully.. That is my dream.. nowadays people fight among people, they don’t care about the others, injuries, vandalisme and all the social life that can lead us and teenagers to the wrong path of their life.. I start to think.. what will happen in next 10 years???

Here a story when I was still in school.. i was being to kind.. people would classified me as a “skema” boy.. haha.. but it is true.. But not now.. now I am a man with a career… hehe.. u know what.. I start to know about cigarettes when I was 15 I guess.. I am not a smoker.. maybe its becoz my father also not a smoker.. but come to think of it.. nowadays kids already start to smoke since they in primary schools.. it only takes 10 years to see the progress.. yes.. we didn’t realize it becoz we always live our life and ignore all those things.. guys.. what will happen in next 10 years?? Every our child will start to smoke?? Think about it..

Another thing that move fast is the technology.. we can resist that.. some of the technologies give benefit to us but some not.. ok.. its simple.. I start to own my mobile phone when I finished my SPM.. which means when I was 17.. today my little brother only 11 years old already own a mobile phone.. luckily he is just like me when I was a kid.. he didn’t use it for bad things except texting my mom.. he never miss used it.. actually he already have that mobile phone 2 years back but always kept it in the house.. we know that texting too much its not good for children.. they start to miss use their language.. lot of short forms.. lot of new words will exist.. are they going to write examination essay in short form? It will be like their routine language and I believe some of them will.. that is the bad signs of the benefit we gave them.. Maybe some of them start to text his/her gf/bf even just a kid.. this technology also can lead them to something we do not want to say.. there are to many.. u see the difference?? What will happen in next 10 years?? its like day by day we have to guide them more than our parent used to guide us.. it will be a tough job for our generation but what can we do.. we have to deal with it..

I start to think.. in order for me to guide them.. I have to be good.. not just good but really2 good person.. To be good we must always pray for the best.. we must pray that our way will be easy.. Jangan kita lupa bahawa kita hidup hanyalah sementara.. kita ada tanggungjawab untuk dilaksanakan untuk menjadikan dunia ini lebih baik.. Sentiasa berdoa kepada Allah S.W.T supaya semua yang kita lakukan diberkati dan permudahkanlah perjalanan hidup kita.. May Allah bless us.

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Bercinta Kerana Allah



Agama Islam adalah agama percintaan dan kasih sayang. Firman Allah di dalam surah Ar-Rum ayat 21, “Dan di antara tanda-tanda yang membuktikan kekuasaannya dan rahmatNya, bahawa Ia menciptakan untuk kamu (wahai kaum lelaki), isteri-isteri dari jenis kamu sendiri, supaya kamu bersenang hati dan hidup mesra dengannya, dan dijadikanNya di antara kamu (suami isteri) perasaan kasih sayang dan belas kasihan.”

Apabila dua insan bercinta, ada yang sayang menyayang kerana “cinta berahi” yang wujud di antara mereka. Cinta berahi yang sampai ke jinjang pelamin akan terselamat dari gangguan syaitan. Cinta berahi yang tercemar dengan hasutan syaitan akan berakhir dengen keterlanjuran.

Di dalam keadaan lain, ada yang sayang menyayang kerana Allah. Bercinta sesama makhluk kerana Allah adalah lebih selamat. Ia tidak melukakan hati, tidak meresahkan jiwa, tidak merosakkan akhlak, tidak perlu risau tentang “frust”, tidak perlu melayan perasaan cemburu. Menurut Rasulullah, menyayangi seseorang kerana Allah dapat mendatangkan kemanisan iman. Namun, tidak ramai yang mengetahui caranya.

Menurut Imam Ghazali di dalam Ihya Ulumuddin, kecintaan seseorang yang hakiki kepada insan lain kerana Allah bukanlah bermaksud mencintai insan itu kerana dzatnya (sifatnya), sebaliknya adalah kerana insan itu dapat mendekatkan diri sendiri dengan akhirat.

Menurut beliau lagi, bahawa seorang lelaki mengahwini seorang wanita soleh supaya terpelihara dari gangguan syaitan, supaya terjaga agamanya, supaya memperolehi anak-anak yang soleh dari wanita itu dan seterusnya anak-anak itu mendoakan untuknya. Lalu apabila lelaki berkenaan mencintai wanita itu kerana semua sebab-sebab di atas, maka dia adalah tergolong sebagai salah seorang pencinta kerana Allah. Perkara ini dinukilankan oleh Al-Ghazali lebih kurang 1000 tahun yang lalu.

Selepas ini, apabila anda mencari cinta, carilah cinta yang wujud kerana Allah. Apabila anda menemui cinta, tanya diri sendiri kenapa anda mencintainya? Apakah kaitan cinta itu dengan akhirat anda?

Cinta yang sering dialami oleh para remaja skrg ini bukanlah sesuatu yang boleh dibanggakan. Mereka cinta bukan kerana Allah S.W.T. tetapi lebih kepada nafsu. Perkara ini memang sukar untuk kite elak kerana ia telah menjadi perkara biasa dikalangan kita. Without knowing we already cross our boundary as a muslim. If today the scenario is already become like this. What will happen to our children in the future? think about it.

Cinta dan kasih sayang yg para remaja dahagakan lebih kepada nafsu dimana ia boleh membawa kite ke kancah maksiat. Anda yakin ke bahawa pasangan cinta anda skrg akan kekal abadi? renungkanlah. Fikirlah sejenak untuk masa depan masing2.

Cinta layaknya seperti seekor rama2, semakin kalian mengejarnya semakin jauh ia terbang meninggalkan kalian. Biarkan rama2mu terbang kemana saja ia suka, siapa tahu bila ia lelah dan tidak sedar akan kewujudanmu ia bakal mengibaskan sayapnya kearahmu menumpang teduh dari panas hujan badai duniawi dalam keadaan yang kau tidak sangka mungkin saja rama2 yang kau kejar itu bukan rama2 yang Allah peruntukkan buatmu.

Cintaila dia kerana Allah bukan kerana sifatnye. Cintaila dia kerna engkau yakin bahawa dia akan mendekatkan kite denganNYA, selalu mengigatkan kite akan kesalahan kite, Selalu menegur kite pabila kite lalai menunaikan tanggungjawab kita padaNYA. Cintaila dia kerna engkau inginkan zuriat yang baik dan yakin bahawa dia boleh mendidik anak2 kejalan yang benar dan diredhai ALLAH S.W.T. Didikla anak2 supaya tidak melupakan agamanya agar generasimu kekal hingga ke anak cucu.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

I guess it is nice 4 me to start with Introduction =)


This is my first time writting a blog. Actually i was not very excited in writting something especially about my life duhh. Its like telling secret things about yourself. But, there are things can be share and hopefully it can be benefit to others. Well, i will write this blog mostly about my experience in daily life, work maybe, activities, i am not sure about feelings but we'll see about that. haaa. the above just a minor description about my blog content will be in future. Maybe i should tell ya a bit about me.. heee =).

Name given by my parents = Khairul Azmil
Currently live at = Klang, Malaysia
How old am i = I am 24 in year 2010
Interest = Cars of coz, Outdoor activities, muzic, chocolates =)

That should be enough for now. If i told u guyz everything, i dunt have anything to write in future. hehe. wait ya. currently i am working, so i cannot take to much time in writing. responsible is my priority =).